LISTENING FROM OUR HEARTS
This year’s theme of World Mental Health Day (October 10) was “Lived Experiences Heard. Real Voices, Real Change. It reminded me that sometimes pausing to really listen can shift how someone sees themselves.
In one of the early Soul Seeds’ sessions with youth experiencing homelessness, a tall young woman strode into the room – black hair, five-inch heel boots, expertly applied purple and black eye makeup. As I greeted her – I’ll call her Jess – she responded with an eye roll and said, “I don’t know why I’m here, nobody ever gets me.” I asked her to say more. “I’ve always been called a freak because I feel things – like I can sense other people’s emotions.” I nodded, gesturing to Nancy. “We can sense that too.” She stared in disbelief; I assured her it was true. In that moment, I felt a subtle shift. Although she was still reluctant to join in, I noticed her face relax as I encouraged her to give the meditation a try.
Afterwards, Jess said, “Inside I always feel crazy chaotic and usually it’s really bad when I close my eyes. I’m totally stressed 24/7. This was the first time in my 19 years I actually felt really calm inside — like maybe there’s hope for me.” Jess smirked, saying she was slightly more optimistic about getting a housing placement soon – and some sleep. Now, I’d like to tell you that Jess got an apartment and a steady job, but I simply don’t know. We never saw Jess at the Center again. I’d like to believe she has a home and is living her best life. What I know for sure is, in those moments of honest conversation — and through the meditation — Jess was able to tap into a part of herself she hadn’t felt before.
As with Jess, connecting through lived experiences can begin by asking one real question and listening to the answer. The World Health Organization’s (WHO) Meaningful Engagement of People with Lived Experience has principles in support of a person’s mental health and well-being.
WHO principle: Engagement must be safe, respectful, and supportive. “How can I make it easier for you to share what you’re experiencing or what you’ve experienced?”
WHO principle: Care should be person‑centered and responsive to individual needs. “What kind of support feels most helpful to you right now?”
WHO principle: Lived experience should be heard, valued, and used to reduce stigma. “Is there anything about your experience that you wish others understood better?”
Simon Sinek defines the art of listening — “Not the act of hearing the words spoken, it is the art of understanding the meaning behind those words … the art is in creating an environment where the other person feels heard.” One aspect of the art is “replacing judgement with curiosity.” How might that shift conversations – with those we know well; with those we don’t agree; with those we’d like to know better? Listening from the heart presents an opportunity to uncover the quiet moments of their lives … and an opportunity to share our own.
At the start of this month’s Healing with Humanity™ Global Meditation, our founder, Nancy Rebecca reminded us, “We are not powerless observers.” Attentive listening to our own hearts and to our inner guidance is a path to healing that extends out to others. It was remarkable to meditate with more than 400 people on Zoom and another 211 who registered. Feeling into the theme of “Rising Above and Radiating Beyond” together – grounded in peace and shining our light into the world.
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I’ll end with one of my favorite Marianne Williamson quotes. “In every community, there is work to be done. In every nation, there are wounds to heal. In every heart, there is the power to do it.” We are not powerless! Let’s rise above the noise to find the beauty in shared compassion, deepening connections, and appreciation of our shared humanity.
Melanie
Melanie Davis-Jones
Board Member
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“If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other.” Mother Teresa




